ABOUT ME

Helping Parents Overcome Parental Alienation and High-Conflict Divorce — From Lived Experience to Empowered Solutions & Strategies

I'm Brandon Plunkett, a parental alienation and high-conflict divorce coach who has lived the nightmare you're facing — and I’m here to help you navigate it with strength, clarity, and proven strategies.

In 2013, after surviving 12.5 years of a toxic, high-conflict marriage filled with separations, threats, and emotional turmoil, my worst fear became reality: my ex-wife cut off all access to our five children, weaponized false allegations, and launched a relentless campaign of parental alienation that turned my kids against me.

For nearly 12 years, I fought a brutal legal and emotional battle, facing false abuse accusations, endless interventions from police, child protective services, lawyers, counselors, and the Supreme Court of British Columbia. I was falsely painted as an abusive father, endured alienation so severe my children feared me, and faced a system that often failed to recognize the manipulation at play.

But I refused to give up. I became my own fiercest advocate:

I prepared over 30 affidavits and organized thousands of pages of evidence.
I mastered legal strategies, documentation systems, and communication to fight for my role as a father.
I studied everything I could on parental alienation, high-conflict personalities, family law, and psychological dynamics—turning my pain into purpose.

Through sheer perseverance and learning, I finally secured primary custody and decision-making authority after a comprehensive forensic psychological assessment confirmed parental alienation.

But winning the case wasn’t the end — healing had to begin. After a decade of battle, I knew there had to be a better way to live and co-exist for my own sanity and for my children’s well-being.

In 2024, I committed to healing, peace-building, and positive co-parenting—even in the face of ongoing challenges. I developed and tested proven communication strategies that helped me rebuild relationships, reduce conflict, and create space for real healing. Today, I am at a place I never thought possible:

I sleep peacefully eight hours a night, after years of sleeplessness.
I co-parent with empathy and respect, avoiding costly court battles.
I've resolved my divorce with my ex wife peacefully and in the best interests of our children.

I’m actively rebuilding strong, loving relationships with all five of my children.

Why I Can Help You

I’ve walked through the fire of parental alienation and high-conflict divorce and came out stronger — not just as a parent but as a person. Now, I help parents like you:

Strategize your next move in complex custody battles.
Respond effectively to false allegations and legal attacks.
Communicate powerfully and safely with a high-conflict ex.
Document and prepare evidence that tells the truth of your story.
Heal emotionally and reclaim your life, even when the system feels stacked against you.